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How do I affair proof my marriage?

Published on September 1, 2010 by acenjas

Hello. I have been married for a little over a year now. My husband is really good to me and works really hard. I have a trust issue with him because of an affair before we got married that didnt end until the week after we were married. Since then he has remained faithful to me. About a week ago though I found out he went to lunch with two girls who he says they are just friends and he is better friends with her boyfriend. But I found text messges on his phone to her too. I then emailed thegirl and she said to not worry they are just friends. He told me he wouldnt talk to her again if it would make me feel better. How do I trust that he wont and he wont do this to me again? I cant live everyday of my life worried.


There is only one thing you can do, make a choice. You either choose to trust him or you don't. If you intent on being with this man you have to make one of these decisions in order to have a happy experience of your relationship with him. If you can't bring yourself to trust him, then you might want to suggest couples counseling. But it is really up to you.