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How do cope with my bf's coworker
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years he is 8 years older than me. He works long hours and his coworker is a female.This woman is much older than me about 10 years , she has been married 2 times and has a son about a year old. He talks about her a lot and they seem to be friends , what bothers me is that when i go to his work and i see her she wont greet me unless hes around. she also sends him texts and calls him when hes off. Not a lot but she does it. He told me that her kid adores him and so does her mother (they go to their work sometimes). He told me that she said to him she is worried I think they are having an affair. Why would she say that? I dont even know her. I would like to add that I have always been nice when I see her. He also made friends with one of her best friends who is a guy, He has now invited my bf over so they can all visit. I want my bf to have friends , and i want him to be happy , I just feel worried that these people would infuence him to be with her ( I know I sound a little crazy) Im just worried and alone, as this is the person he works with and I cant talk to him . I dont want to make his life at work any harder.
I feel worried and left out in some way. My bf is all i have , i hardly have family . I lost a baby in my previous relationship and it feels like she is trying to find a "father" for her son.
I have been abused and cheated on by my pervious boyfriend and this relationship has been everything I could dream about its beautiful, he is the most caring and amazing man. It feels like she is trying to do something. I feel angry and jealouse when he talks about her, i try not to let it show and just smile. I told him that he sould draw the line with women and its not my job or place to do anything.
I dont understand why she is doing this? What can I do? He is very attaractive and I understand women like him , hes very charming and kind.
I just dont know how to handle this with grace and how not to lose him. :(