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how to deal with the situation when u had so much to say during a break-up and you didn't and just took his s**t?
well i met this guy at a party through a friend.He liked me instantly and things were great for two months and suddenly after that he started sulking.i tried to talk to him many times but he was not even interested to talk and because i liked him so much n feared that I'd lose him if i became too pushy.i was patient still I'd go to his place thinking that he'd be ready to talk and bring things back to how it was.i must say i suffered a lot then (almost a month).so one fine day i said that i really wanted to talk and I'd made up my mind that I'd break up cos i couldn't take his cold-shoulder anymore.i started by asking if he really wants to work things out n he said that he couldn't because of his family(i knew about it earlier too) and started saying that i had the same characteristics as his elder brother(whom he hates) and many other hurtful things and for what i didn't retaliate because maybe cos deep down i really wanted it to work and didn't want to piss him off more..well i didn't break down or anything.i just listened to him patiently. i didn't try to defend myself.i could've told him so many things (not trying to convince him to stay)but things like even he was at fault more so than i was ..but i didn't say anything.After all that blame-game he calmed down and as i was about to leave he asked what i wanted to do...i could've told him that i just wanted to leave cos i couldn't see any good coming out of our relationship but i simply said i don't know!!!(when i knew what i wanted) i asked him the same thing n he replied saying that even he doesn't know..then finally he said he'd gimme a call after he gets his phone back(his phone was lost a month ago).i didn't say anything.(cos somewhere deep down i knew he'd never call and just assuring me, the assurance that i didn't want!!) i didn't wanna be in that position where I'd be expecting again.the ball is in his court again.even then i could have told that there's no point of him calling cos i didn't want to continue still i didn't say anything!! n then i left and now I'm regretting so much so much!!why the hell didn't i tell him all those things i could have told him.i would've felt much better.(that's what i think).what should i do now??