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How can I tell where we're going or if he even really likes me?
I broke up with my boyfriend in June over a stupid fight and spent the whole summer and first semester back at separate colleges trying to get him to talk to me and mend our relationship. Finally, over winter break, we both came home from school for the month that we had off. At first he was hesitant to talk to me and he would tell me to leave him alone or that he didn't want to hang out.
But eventually, he decided to get together and from there we continued to talk and hang out more regularly. We would go to the movies or to dinner and HE would call them dates! Towards the end of break, he told me that he did still love me, but he just couldn't be with me just then, and he went back to school. I still continued to text him and tried to talk to him regularly and at first he was great. Really nice and telling me he missed me or he loved me and asking me to visit. Sometimes he would even text me first. But now, it's like a complete 180. He doesn't text me or when I text him he's really short with me. I just don't know what to do, or what he's thinking.
Recently, he thought that I was seeing somebody else and he got really angry and defensive. He told me that I was his and he fought with the other guy through facebook messages! So, he can't tell me that I'm his and tell me I'm cute or he misses me or ask me to visit one day and then the next just totally ignore me and not want to speak.
Any advice or ANY idea of what could be going on right now? Anything would be appreciated. Thank you.