Although men and women are prone to giving mixed signals, sometimes it's the basic rules that apply to situations. Actions speak louder than words.
If she is treating you negatively and unkind, this person is not deserving of your time nor your friendship, or anything more than that. We are often drawn to people for various reasons, but the bottom line is how someone treats you.
You can not dismiss how she treats you in front of people. That sends a very powerful message as to how she values you and respects you. You would be better off finding a more suitable companion and someone who values you.
Good luck in your search to Find Your Plus One.
"Because Everyone Deserves a Plus One"
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