i don't know this guy but let him meet ur mother. If she has cared 4 u she will be able 2 see right thru the BS. But basics shows that he loves u by showin u off 2 his friends. He helps u in his own way. He has 2 be around u. He tells u personal things. He does things 4 u that u hate 2 do. He wants 2 marry if he loves u. He has 2 know that's what u want n require though cuz as long as a guy has u they not really presse about getting married.