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How can I get a relationship?
I'm turning twenty this year, and Ive only had one boyfriend. Most people my age have had ten times that or more. While I dont necessarily want to go through too many messy breakups, I would like to have a relationship. The one boyfriend I mentioned above existed in my freshman year of high school, and we had one sloppy first kiss before I broke it off. That's all I've ever had physically too by the way. I do want to wait to have sex til marriage but I wouldn't alot of physical play leading up to it. I'm atleast above a 5 on the 1-10 scale for looks.. What's wrong. I have talked to plenty of guys since then but it never goes anywhere. I do tend to be very nervous and shy when it comes to being around the guys... I dont ever make a move as you would say... but they could.. My friends tell me I dont notice guys flirting with me and they do... do I not notice it when a guy is trying to make a move?? I get that Im relatively young.. but come on, by twenty I should have had more than a kiss and a boyfriend.. Do you have any advice? I should mention I tend to decide i dont like the guy im talking to after about two weeks in...nerves..but later I get over that about another week or two.. but by then the cute ones have lost interest.. and others i feel have gone into stalker mode.. so im turned off.. I had one guy tell me he loved me after only maybe a month of communication...and I drop communication... Help me! Atleast give me some tips on meeting people... I feel I'm doomed to be alone.. Thankyou and sorry for the crazy lengthy story. :/