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How can I get him to dominate me in bed?
My boyfriend is a very smart, liberal, enlightened man. He believes that women are unfairly objectified in our society and that men should do more to try and equal the playing field. I like this about him. But there's one place I wish he would try to be a little less egalitarian, and that's in the bedroom. I love to be tied up, slapped, and called dirty names. I've told him this, but he says he just can't play along because it would make him feel awful to do those kinds of things to me. How can I get him to dominate me without his politics getting in the way?