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How can I get a guy?

Published on October 3, 2013 by alanab

I'm a college freshman who has never kissed a guy. It's not that I haven't had opportunities (especially now that I'm at college), but every time a guy flirts with me, looks my way or dances with me at a party I freeze up. It's not my looks or anything, though I'm not gorgeous I think I'm alright looking and I'm definitely friendly enough where I have a lot of guy friends. But while my friends are hooking up I just can't. I want to, but I get so nervous when I feel a guys hands on my hips or the look in his eyes when he's about to kiss me that I can't stand it. What do I do? How can I calm my nerves enough to hook up?


Instead of focusing on hooking up, focus on ways to build your confidence and self-esteem so that when you do meet a guy that you are interested in you'll be attractive because you are a great girl, not just an easy hook up after 1 too many cheap beers. When you are less focused on getting physical and more focused on having a great time as yourself and by yourself, you'll find you attract more of the right kind of attention.