This is probably going to make me sound like an awful person, but I'll say it anyway: my boyfriend's penis is too small. I never used to have a problem reaching orgasm in the girl-on-top position with my previous boyfriends, but i can't with him and I know it's because he's so tiny. I don't want to kill his ego, but no matter what we try, I can't seem to get off with him. It's been nearly six months now. What can i do?
First of all, a guy has what he has. If you love him you should love him no matter what. A guy is MORE than a/his penis size! Have you tried other positions, more foreplay!? If you're having difficulty, you need to communicate outside of the bedroom & find ways to get what you want. The other thing I'd like to say that "it' the journey NOT the destination". If you're so focused on how "you can't get off" it will add to your problem. Just because something has worked for you in the past, doesn't mean it will with someone else. People are going to be different & not the same! Trick is to figure out what works NOW! You're with this guy, not your ex's. How would you feel being compared to his past gf's?! Have fun & communicate your concerns with him. I am sure he would not be happy knowing you're not enjoying yourself either! Maybe try some toys that can possibly help with this. Look into things together & spice it up! =)
This is my user name on a forum that councils guys that are insecure about the size of their penises all day.Guess what.. I have a small penis.I'm between 4-5". Statistically you have to go through about 97 men before you meet someone as small as me.So I have been helping guys cope because they have trouble coping with the size of their penises and let me tell you that it tough to keep my ego going when I see a thread like this.But I have answers.Well if you are having orgasms from intercourse alone than you are in the minority.The vast majority of women get it through their clitoris so if you feel like your bf is not doing something or is too small,something else must be going on.I like to think I have a black belt in foreplay.If you bf cant do that very well now that is a problem. But I challenge the too small theory with this.How is it that two lesbians can make themselves go crazy with orgasm with each other yet neither one has a small penis...They have no penises.So the good news is that if you love your bf then it can be done.I don't condone pornography at all.Also I am 53 and married 20 years with a wife that always goes to bed with a smile.And why? Because we told each other directly what feels good and what feels like nothing.I have a thread for you to read over at my site that had a video on it and also a big discussion on the subject of size.I believe our woman moderator joined in with me so we could keep things accurate.You will also find a video on there with about 5 or 6 girls of college age and they get down to the nitty gritty subject of size and you would be shocked.
Here is the thread http://www.altpenis.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=9246#Post9246
Girls especially young ones tend to play follow the leader.You can almost see that in the video.If one says"Oh I had this guy who was real big and the sex was awesome:" This send big message to all the other girls that a big one is awesome.Sorry.That's not true although it can be if your lover knows what he is doing.And I can go on and on and on about this subject, but I will leave you with this.A small minority of women have orgasms from their g-spot.You are girls so find out what that is.Most girls don't have or never had an orgasm from the g-spot.Most girls get off from the clit.If someone is telling you different, they are wrong.Sometimes there is a group of women that can''t get an orgasm at all so they need help. But please check out this thread I left you so that you don't throw out some guy that you love because you don't know how to work out things sexually.Again..there are hundred of thousands of lesbians that are in love and they make themselves go crazy with sex yet there are no penises involved.
Thanks for listening,
I thought my boyfriend had a small penis. I went to the dr. robert website at
and read his articles on penis size. Then I realized that his penis really is normal. My problem is that my first boyfriend had a huge penis which was so big that I could hardly get the tip of it in my mouth. I guess I am spoiled now
GO TO THE ASK DR. ROBERT WEBSITE. HE HAS SOME VERY GOOD LETTERS ABOUT AND FROM MEN WHO WANT TO FIND OUT IF THEIR PENIS IS BIG ENOUGH FOR SEX. HE GIVES MEASUREMENTS OF AVERAGE PENISES. JUST GO TO THE SITE AND SEARCH FOR PENIS.
GO TO THE DR. ROBERT WEBSITE. HE HAS SOME VERY GOOD LETTERS ABOUT AND FROM MEN WHO WANT TO FIND OUT IF THEIR PENIS IS BIG ENOUGH FOR SEX. HE GIVES MEASUREMENTS OF AVERAGE PENISES. JUST GO TO THE SITE AND SEARCH FOR PENIS.