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Help Me He's just soo confusing!!!

Published on May 20, 2011 by itssteffersbaby

He tells me he loves me and everything and that he misses me, but he has barely talked to me in a few weeks and I haven't seen him in awhile because he doesn't have any gas money, but today I find out that he's driving his friend to New York wtf I know his friend his paying to drive him, but it makes no sense he'll make time for his friends but not me wtf mean a part of me believes that he really wants to see me and a part of me doesn't grr I don't know what to do Help please


You are right. He likes you but not enough to spent time with you. Nagging him won't help. Just get involved with someone or something else. Let some time go by.

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He probably has no idea that what he's doing is hurting you. He probably just thinks he's driving his friend to NY and doing him a favor, and that's it. He's not thinking about the impact it has on you. That's how guys are sometimes. Not because they're trying to be jerks but because they're just doing what they normally do.

At the same time, I do see your point, and I agree that if he really wanted to talk to you or see you, he would make the effort to do so. Someone who really loves and cares about you would make that a top priority. I would go by his actions more than his words. You should find out what he really wants from you and your relationship.

I'm sure your right that he doesn't even know what he's doing because well guys are clueless. I sometime thinks it has something to do seeing how we're hitting the 6 months and I know that some people have a problem around 6 months and then it gets better after. Not only that this is his first longest relationship for being 20 idk if that has anything to do with it

Agree with Vette, he probably is confused as to why you are aggravated. Did he offer to take you along too, could you have gone? Would you? Maybe try asking him to do more with you, rather than waiting for him to suggest and initiate the move. I am often caught out for that, I am happy to sit with my lady, content in the 'being with her', yet she asks to go to dinner or a movie, I say OK, she asks which, I say I don't mind, she goes ballistic. So I am trying hard to suggest what and where to go, but the toughest part is whatever I suggest seems to not be the right thing.... but hey, we love each other.

Well the thing is he couldn't have even picked me up because I live so far away. Not only that we haven't seen each other in so long because he doesn't have any gas money and now it seems like he's treating me like I'm a friend