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Give Advice: He Won't Answer My Texts
I got a guy's phone number at my cousin's wedding a couple weeks ago and after less than a day of texting him, he stopped responding to my messages. After asking him some random questions, I said "So tell me about yourself Mr. Brown." He didn't respond. I felt like I was interrogating him since he wasn't asking me any questions...so I let him know that as well...and he didn't respond either. I then let him know that I possibly wanted to pursue a relationship with him at some point...and of course he didn't respond to that either. Three days after we met, he left for Canada, where he plays football for the CFL 6 months out of the year. I was hoping that in 6 months we'd be to the point where we could start hanging out or something, but he isn't talking to me. I sent him a message a few days after the last one asking if he made his trip safely and if he got settled in....but no response. I really want to talk to this guy, I know that we have a couple things in common: we both like dancing and pitbulls. He has a pitbull and I always wanted one. I plan to take things very slow with this guy since I just got out of a 10 year relationship a couple weeks ago and it's beyond salvaging. I met my ex when I was 14 and he was 13 and we were instantly dating from the time that we met. We got to know each other along the way, and I was diagnosed with Graves' disease during our relationship. That pretty much ruined the relationship (not blaming it completely on the disease), but he also turned into a person I no longer loved. Since it was my first relationship, I now know what I want from a man...and my ex is definitely not it.
So anyway, how long should I wait to talk to this guy and should I just stick to asking random questions? I don't really like doing that, but I'm not sure how else to get to know him through texting.
Thanks in advance for your help!!!