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Help! He pretends not to care!

Published on July 10, 2014 by sagchic

My fiancee has been a very independent single father of 4. He puts up a front and said if this works out that's great but if it doesnt then well be friends. How do i bring that barrier down?

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I had a relationship like this for almost 2 years. He Always had a wall up, would avoid serious conversations like the plague, and generally just held me at arms' length. I eventually had enough and told him I wanted a partner whom was more involved and also my best friend. After I left, he begged me to come back and said he wanted those things also. I took him back, only to find about a week later that it was right back to the same old, same old. My standard in a relationship is just more than that, and I did leave him. I prefer a more passionate partner that is more involved in my life and invested in the relationship. It's up to you to decide how much time you are willing to devote to him in the hopes he will open up

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