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He wants me to strip at a strip club where no one knows us (I'm not a stripper.)
I have a great guy - amazing actually - however, he is rather jealous. I've stopped doing promotional work in clubs because he hates the idea that some guy would be "checking me out" or "hit on me." We've been together for almost 4 years. Recently however, he has suggested that when we go on Vacation "where no one knows us" - I could do a strip show, at a strip club, and then we could go back to the hotel and have sex. I get that it may be a secret fantasy of his... however, I am confused because usually the idea of guys "looking at me" would drive him crazy. When I asked him about it he said it would be something that "would make me happy because I'd have all that male attention." I have no desire to be a stripper, I have nothing against it, it's just not for me. I did explain this to him, and he respects that. I just don't understand why he's usually so jealous about other guys liking the way I look - but then he secretly wants me to strip.... could you explain this?