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He says were just friends with benefits, but spends every moment of his free time with me. What does this mean?

Published on March 26, 2010 by krissa64

We met and he stated at that first meeting that he just wants to be friends, but within a week we were friends with benefits. He calls and texts me several time a day and always makes plans for my free time. We see each other daily, basically just hanging out with each other and have sex 3 to 4 times a week. He even tells me about other girls that have hit on him, is he trying to make me jealous? He also makes sure that I'm very happy in bed, by making sure that I always have multiple orgasms. I'm just very confused at this point to what he wants as I would love to have a real relationship with him.


I don't think he is ready for a commitment at this time, as it is obvious to me you are far more mature than he is, enjoy the ride but get off the bus as it is nice(sex wise)but it is going in the wrong direction from where you wish to go. All the best Danzilla.

If I had a dollar for every time someone had a question like this. You are a FWB. He is using you for sex. Yes, he likes to see you a lot so he can get lots of sex. He tells you about other girls that hit on him because he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He's probably hooking up with other people too. Entering into a FWB situation in the hopes that he'll eventually change his mind and "want to have a real relationship" is ridiculous. If you want a real relationship, make sure that you are with someone who cares about you and is committed to you before you have sex with them. Sex doesn't mean anything significant to some people. It does not equal love, nor does it mean that he is interested in you as anything more than a booty call. Get some self respect and kick him to the curb.

On the other hand if you both entered into this FWB situation fine with what it was and you developed feelings unexpectedly over time, it just means that it's time to end the current relationship. Never expect that those feelings are/will be returned in a situation like this and do yourself a favor by getting out of it now. You should never enter into a relationship hoping that things will change.

You are probably his first FWB , that you are a really good fuck and he keeps coming back for more ass. Good for you.. Enjoy it as much as you can.