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he saids hes not looking for a girlfriend, can i change his mind?

Published on April 5, 2010 by allie1

i fell for this guy, and i really like him. weve been talking for about a month.. before we met he told me he isn't looking for a girlfriend..i have the best time with him, and im sure he feels the same.. is it possible for him to change his mind and reliaze that he wants to change his single ways for me? or am i never going to get a committment from him ?

thank you :)

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WELL, LETS SEE! HE HAS ALLUDED TO HIS DISPOSTION UP FRONT HE DID NOT LET U THINK HE WOULD CHANGE HIS MIND NOR IS HE INDICATING NOW HE WILL CHANGE SO ACCEPT AND PLAY ALONG AND PRAY FOR THE BEST OR KISS AND CUT HIM LOOSE!!! ITS YOUR CHOICE BUT DONT BLAME THE GUY FOR BEING DISHONEST OR MISLEADING BECAUSE U R THE ONE WHO IS SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR A HARD AND A LONELY FALL. I SINCERALLY WISH THE BEST FOR YU MAM! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH MIAMI BUBBA

It's possible that he may change his mind, but there's nothing you can to to make him and if I were you I wouldn't waste my time waiting around for it either. Don't for a minute think that sleeping with him or entering into a FWB situation is going to change his mind. If you've already told him that you would like a relationship with him and he's told you that he isn't interested in a commitment right now, it's best for you to move on to someone else.

No, you cannot change his mind, when a guy says something negative like that, he means it. Even though he would probably willingly have sex with you, he is not wanting you as his girlfriend. Move on.

When a guy says he doesn't want a girlfriend, he doesn't mean he wants a girlfriend always. He means he doesn't want you as a girlfriend. And while you may have fun with him nothing you can do will change that.

Yes, it's possible that how he feels will change. No, you will not change his mind. It may be where he is emotionally, or it may be that you just don't ignite the right spark in him, or a combination. If it's the first, respecting and accepting how he feels will win you points of consideration when he does progress emotionally. If it's the latter, he's trying to spare your feelings, whether he realizes it or not. (yes, he may not realize it). Either way, you should move on physically and emotionally. You can't always choose who you love, but holding an reciprocated candle for someone will cripple your chances of finding what you really want - someone as willing and able to love as you are.

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