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Is he the right guy?
So basically I met this guy online two years ago...we have been talking forever, and really getting to know each other. And yes I have actually met him in person a couple times. Throughout the time we have gotten to know each other there have been some ups and downs...not communicating properly and getting on each others' nerves etc. Over all we have been able to sort out our differences and things have been going really well lately, Now I know alot about this guy's personality, beliefs and core-values...over all he is a really great guy. Alot of women would be "lucky" to find him still single. But here is where it gets difficult..and yes I understand that I might sound like a spoiled brat who wants everything but please here me out. In my mind this guy is a safe bet, he is stable and loyal and would happily pop the question after the appropriate number of years and emotional stepping stones. My problem is I dont want to settle. Just because I can live with him doesnt mean I cant live without him. I have always wanted an amazing relationship where I have no doubt in my mind that this is guy for me. I want loving someone to blow my mind. I have had something mind-blowing in the past (didnt work out ) so I understand that is possible. So, to whoever is reading this, what should I do? Am I being a fool by brushing off one of the last decent men out there or should I hold out and risk it all for that chance of bliss?