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He broke up with me, but then why wont he leave me alone?
I dated this guy for a year and a half, but he broke it off with me a few months ago. About a month afterwards, he started calling and texting again, wantingto hang out. Unfortunately, since i still had deep feelings for him, i agreed to it. We started off just trying to be friends, but then he told me that he hd feelings for me still and yet he didnt want to get back into a relationship. He stayed with me at my place for three weeks straight (we'd lived together for a year before breaking up) and we were almost acting as if we were a couple again. And yet he still does not want to commit. He backtracked and said he wanted to be be friends...but then continued to act like we were a couple. I kept telling him that it was just too painful for me to be his friend, but i couldnt resist the happiness i felt when we were acting like we were together...and he kept saying he still had feelings...so why, if he still has feelings, and were basically together without the label, wont he commit?