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He always falls for my friends and not me!!!
I believe im a good looking woman and have a lot to offer a guy. Whenever i meet a guy it always turns out the same. He falls for one of my friends. Even though we both have a lot in common, can open up and share with each other, and have a great time together he still falls for my friend. I recently met a guy on a sports team that my friend and i decided to join. Him and I automatically started talking on the phone and through texts. We always had something to talk about and i felt like we hit it off perfectly. Finally, my friend and I met up with him at a party and we all started talking. Before i knew it he was flirting with my friend and they were having a great time talking to each other. Since i have been in this position more times then i could count, i already knew where this was going. He was falling for my friend right in front of me. Since the party him and I still talk to each other the same way but it seems I am just a good friend... again. When we talk now he is always asking about my friend and how he can get to know her more. I am too nice to try and stop it because i care to much about my friends but i want him to fall for me and not her. How can I be the one the guy falls for instead of just being his friend? Am i being more like "one of the guys" or just too much friend like then actual girl friend? Its getting to the point where i have decided to give up on finding a boyfriend. What can i do?