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good date, seemed interested and no call back, why?

Published on January 2, 2010 by mariposa1978

I went on a date the other night. it went ok. not the most exciting date but we were clicking...we have lots of the same interests and goals. at the end of the date he went to give me a hug (in his car) and he kissed me on the cheek. I wasnt sure if he was trying to give me a kiss or if it was purposely on the cheek. he told me to text him when i got home. i did and i thanked him again for dinner. the next day i got a text from him asking how i was. then we texted back and forth maybe 2 more times. i sent him a how are you text the next day and got an ok. then nothing. durring dinner he said we should play catch some time, and a few other activities we should do. i said sure, i was enthusiastic but i dont think i was overly enthusiastic about it. i thought things were going well, especially since he kissed me on the cheek at the end of the night. so any insight as to why he hasnt called since? i know he was busy with work, he mentioned getting new employees and having to travel, but i dont think that would stop someone from taking 5 minutes out to call someone they are interested in or texting them to let them know they are interested.


I think he's "just not that into you." You said the date was "ok," it wasn't very exciting, and he suggested the two of you play catch together sometime. Seriously? I didn't see anything in your post that indicated that he was into you. A kiss on the cheek is a kind gesture and is fairly common. If you haven't heard from him - he's just not into you.

the catch thing is because we were talking about sports, i've played softball since i was 8 and he was impressed by that, he was a pro foot ball player a few years ago. so i think the catch thing was to asses my skills. but the kiss on the cheek did throw me off because i've never had a guy do that and not call me. i get that he isnt that into me its just weird that he would suggest meeting again and then not call. I dont do that to guys, if i have no interest then i wont say, "we should...", i just say maybe. but thanks.