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Go to Hawaii with female friend who is not my fiance?
I've been with my girlfriend for 7 years. We were engaged, but due to some trust issues we went through a really bad breakup earlier this year. During this time I made plans with a female friend of mine (we are strictly friends, she's like a sister) to go to Hawaii. I paid for my half, she paid for hers, but we're sharing a room with two separate beds. A few months later my girlfriend and I got back together. The engagement isn't back on yet, but she's basically living with me. I wasn't sure how to bring it up to her immediately, so I waited about a month to tell her that I was going to be going to Hawaii. with my friend. They know each other, and my girlfriend knows we are just friends. The tickets are non-refundable, and we can't change the names on the tickets. My girlfriend isn't totally ok with it, but she's given me the OK to go. What should I do? I can't just throw away $1500. Am I in the wrong to go to Hawaii and expect her to understand?