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First Sleepover With A Guy (Ever) + Possible Other Firsts
Somehow I have made it to 19 years of age a virgin both in the technical sense and in terms of co-ed sleepovers. While I was able to put off sleepover requests from my high school (and now my ex) boyfriend, I've now been in college for a semester with my own (single) dorm room, and I don't have any excuses left. My new boyfriend (also one of my best friends for the last four years) will be coming back into town in two weeks to see me, and he's expecting to stay the weekend. This means not only one but TWO nights of sleepover, and I'm beginning to freak out. Do I drink or do I not? Obviously I don't want to get messed up but I know my nervousness will show. Should I lose my virginity to him? I had been planning on it, but should it be on the first sleepover ever? And how do two people comfortably sleep on a single college dorm bed? What do I wear? How do I sneak out to fix myself in the morning before he wakes up? I'm so nervous just thinking about this and I need some straightforward advice.