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My wife and I have been married very happily for over 30 years. I have an otk spanking fetish and she somewhat enjoys spanking me as she knows I love it. She does not like to be spanked and I accept and understand this. My question however. goes beyond this background information. I want to be able to give her enjoymeant, but she doesn't seem to have imagination or knowledge as to what turns her on. Time and again I have tried patiently to get her to tell me how I can turn her on via fantasies or any other form of lovemaking . She tells me she has tried, but nothing really turns her on and she is happy just to hug and kiss in bed. While I appreciate that, I wish I could do more and yes it does make me feel somewhat inadequate. I know I'm not nor will I ever be the grat lover, but I feel at a loss. Any suggestions?