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does skinny=HOT?

Published on March 1, 2012 by curious90

My mother is stressed out becase I gained 20 pounds after graduating high school. She says since I'm really pretty, I just need to lose 20 pounds, then I can marry anyone I want. Do men prefer women who have bodies like kiera knightley? eva longoria? kim kardashian?


Well, kim is not skinny. She is curvy. At any rate, different men like different things. Honestly, it only matters what you find attractive. What men love is confidence. If you feel the need to lose weight, do it because you want to do it FOR YOU, not to attract a man. My aunt used to be a little heavy, she was still heavy when she was married and her husband never had an issue with it. She has since lost weight because she wanted to be more fit and active in the kid's activities.

The thing that bugs me is that your mother is basing your worth on getting a husband. And if you don't lose those 20 pounds, then what? I don't think she meant to hurt your feelings but, she probably did. However, do you think you would like to get in better shape. Being rake thin does not mean you are in shape. You can be in good physical shape and not be skin and bones. You need to fuel your body for energy and to feed your brain. Dieting doesn't mean starvation. It just means cutting down on fatty foods here and there. Excercise, like walking and bycycling can give you energy and relax your mind. You don't have to over do it to be in shape. Most of us don't live in hollywood. Look at Demi Moore. They show pictures of before and after. In one picture, she's not rake thin but, has energy and is smiling. In the other picture, it looks like she's going to colapse and looks like her brain is not in use. That is sad. Kiera Knightly looks malnutritioned as well. The reason guys like Kim kardashian is not because she looks skinny. It's because she acts like she's somethin special and she believes it herself. Eva Longoria is naturally tiny boned. All those photos of those stars are airbrushed. They are not perfect. But, in the end, being skinny to impress a man is not going to give you the happiness in life you deserve. You are the one who has to live in your own body.

Firstly, yes most men prefer skinny women, but most men are also pigs. A quality man won't care what you look like. Do you want wait for a fantastic guy, or do you want settle for second best so you can get a guy sooner? Some women will happily take second best rather than be single. That choice is yours.

Secondly, pretty has nothing to do with size. There are some butt ugly skinny women, in fact many skinny women are butt ugly because they look like teenage boys, have no curves and look like they are starving to death. Beautiful comes in all shapes and sizes and it's very sad that your mother judges beauty by size. Don't let her bigotry effect you.

Thirdly - when it comes to your weight, you need to do what's best for you. Most skinny women are quite unhealthy. Find our your ideal weight for your height and body type, and aim for that - if that's losing 20 pounds, then go for it - if that's gaining 20 pounds, then go for that. Do what is best for your health and forget what anyone else thinks.

When it comes to your weight, the only thing that matters is what is best for your health. Not what your mother, or men, or anyone thinks about your looks. And remember, what matters most is your inner beauty, not what's on the outside.

And you know what? you don't need a man to happy or successful. You can be happy and successful all on your own. Being single can be a blessing - never settle for a man who doesn't love every part of you as you are now. You will get old and wrinkly one day, it's important to have a man who will stay with you when that happens and doesn't trade you in for a younger model.

This is not the 19th century - it's ok to be single and enjoy singlehood while you have it. It doesn't matter what size you are - most men are more attracted to self confidence anyway. If you love you as you are, men will see that and be attracted to you.