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Does he really want to be with me?
I've known this guy for about 4 months. We've been spending time together, hooking up, and talking to eachother everyday for about 1 month of it. We were close friends before becoming physical. He talks about us "making eachother miserable 15 years from now" and how he wishes he could take me and his daughter and just move to Scotland. He also tells me how he can't believe how attracted he is to me, and not just sexually. On more than one occasion he has said to me that no matter what happens between I will always be in his life. He also introduced me to his 3 year old daughter which he said he has never done with any other girl. My issues are that we are completely different people on opposite sides of the spectrum. I blame that on the fact that I am a fixed fire sign, Leo, and he is a fixed air sign, Aquarius, hahaha. But in all serious he also has a hard time commiting. His past relationships were rough and he says he used to be a very jealous, angry person. He is nowhere near that now. He said he likes his freedom and not having to "answer to anybody". He also said that he broke up with his last girlfriend because she tried to tell him what to do. I have never done that and I hope that he realizes that. There is so much more I can go into but I would be here forever. Anyway, I don't think he's hooking up with anybody else, it's just me, and we get along wonderfully! I keep trying to tell myself to take things slowly and not to pressure him into calling me his girlfriend. I just don't understand why he won't yet. Any insight you have on this would be GREATLY appreciated! Thank you so much.