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Does he like me? I don't know what to do anymore?

Published on April 2, 2014 by breannebarclay

So Ive been friends with this guy for years. We just started to hook up recently.He's pretty sensitive and shy but I took him to a party and there were a lot of people there from High School. I look really different since then and all these guys kept on flirting with me in front of him. He got beyond jealous it was so obvious. Some guy even slapped my butt in front of him and my guy friend kept on giving him dirty looks all night. He played all this music there that I like, to get my attention. Then he had to drive my car cause I was drinking and we went back to my house and he was being soo distant. He would barely look at me and was on his phone all night texting someone and it looked like he was crying but he blamed it on his allergies, and when I offered him a ride home he rejected it and walked instead. I texted him today to see if he wanted to get coffee and talk and he is just acting cold towards me :/

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Hello breannebarclay,

Something women don't know about men is they don't spend time with us if they don't like us.

Women generally spend time with men to get to know them and see if they like them. Men generally spend time with women they initially like and won't continue to spend time with them if they stop liking them.

It would be important for you to have a conversation to let him know how you feel (and don't feel) about him. And also to tell him what your expectations are (and aren't) for your relationship. And to also find out how he feels about you and what his expectations are for your relationship.

This is a wonderful opportunity for you to have an honest and open conversation to see if you are both feeling the same and/or have the same expectations or not. This is truly an important conversation you need to ultimately have with each man you spend serious time with and it might be a little easier to begin with a man who is already your friend.

If you'd like more information about how have this conversation in a safe and caring way please write back. Also, I'd love to know what happens after you've had this conversation.

Coach Christine Your Tango Expert Christine@ThePerfectCatch.com

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