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Does he have someone else?
On Jan 22,2011 I meet this guy. We exchanged numbers of course and we have been talking since. We both had chemestry for each other. He is 43 and Im 38. He was married for 20 years.He is divorced and has 3 kids. He says his wife cheated on him. Ive been divorced for 5yrs now and I have 4 kids. We got along perfect. Since we meet we talked and text everyday a few times a day actually. Well here is the thing. We hung out with his friends about once, he came over to watch movies once, we meet for breakfast once. ONCE ONCE ONCE LOL. Since we both work the same hours we dont really see each other much because of our schedules. He has his kids every other weekend and I have them full time right now but I would accomodate my schedule to hang out with him. He had told me that Its too soon for me to meet his kids because thats what his therapist told him. Ok, I respect that. Well, my kids are very opened and they have no problem bringing the person Im dating for dinner or movies at my house. Well, Im fustrated now because he hasnt really made time to come over hang out. He is always tired during the week, and is always busy during weekends. I told him from day one what I want, I want to be in a relationship and that I understand that he just got out of a 20 yr marriage so this will not work out. He said no I want to be with you, i really like you alot, on Friday 2/11 he asked me if I would give him a change and be commited to him. So we boht agreed we will be exclusive. Saturday comes, he is with his kids and Im w my family. I didnt get reception at my moms when he called so he text whatever thats a good one. I was like wth! so no call till sunday night. Then monday comes like nothing happened.To make this story short, I think he has someone else, he really likes me he says but that he wants to take it slow and get to know me. He denies the whole thing of course but all the actions that he shows me I really dont buy that. He couldnt even see me on VDay because he beleives that if you like someone you can bring her a gift any day. True but seriously I havent seen him in over a week and when I did was for breakfast only! NOT! A guy that wants to be a woman would do anything to see her. You dont need to bring me flowers or gifts just stop by and give me a hug thats all! Im very independent, hard worker, great cook, loveble, great heart, I give 100% in a relationship but I just dont take shit from anyone anymore. My heart was broken 2 yrs ago but that doesnt mean i need to be bitter with all other men. No, not at all,. He then has the b....lls to call this morning and said he was sleeping all day on VDAY to give him a chance, that I have issues, that why do i treat him like if he was my bf ? that what can he do not to loose me! Loose me ? he never had me ! I told him straight out not to ever call me again. I can go on and on but just give me your opinion??