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Does he actually like me or just see me as a booty call?

Published on February 20, 2013 by dollfacex

So there is this guy I have been seeing for almost a year, off and on. We talk quite frequently, but we only see each other about once every month or so. When we are together we have a great time and have so much in common. Our personalities are so awesome together. He makes me laugh and smile, and I do the same for him. Of course, when we see each other we have sex, which is amazingg. He is everything I dreamed of in a man. But sometimes I feel like he is using me. He constantly says how perfect we are and how he wants to have kids with me. But he claims he is afraid to be in a relationship. We have never declared us being official, and never said we can't see other people. But I don't have any proof he is with other women, but I also don't doubt he isn't. I'm just so confused with this guy. I'm crazy about him and would do anything for him. Why can't he see that? So the question boils down to Do you think that this guy genuinely likes me or does he just see me as an occasional sex object?

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Hi dollfacex,

He definitely sees that you would do anything for him and that is why he is feeding you everything you want to hear (marriage, children, etc). His main objective is to have sex with you and he gets it every time you two meet up. Why should anything change (in his eyes)? I know it's difficult to hear, but this guy is not worth your time. You deserve better. Move on - it will be liberating, and you will be able to find the guy out there who will treat you the way you should be treated.

With Love & Everything in Between, Shamia Casiano Relationship Coach and Love Guru http://cityofshamia.blogspot.com

I feel you girl..been there.fact is no matter what type of guy he is. He probably has love for you but is not in love with you. Your great and perfect but because he isn't ready he keeps you hanging on because your great. After all this time move on n not with him

Clearly state to him that you are crazy about him and want an "official" exclusive relationship with him. If he won't commit, figure he's just some guy who likes free milk but isn't too crazy about buying the cow.

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