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Do you think your not being understandable if you brake up with your girl because she always workin and never tryin to see you?

Published on March 2, 2010 by hoodskilznta

I've been in this relationship for almost 5 years now, the first two years was wonderful she was still working at the time and we was seeing each other almost three to four times a week.. all of a sudden she just started working and seeing me at least once a month that's if I'm luck. i tried understanding but at the same time I'm seeing pic of her going to party, and on her way home from school she could also pass by my house but she don't... i don't understand she cries like she love me but we been through that three or four times before.... so i felt that the best way is to just leave her alone.... i really forgot how being in a relationship really suppose to feel because of her... i know that we had to different life but at a point she wanted to marry me, and that not how a relationship or a married relationship suppose to be...

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If she's not making any effort to see you or spend time with you but makes time to go to parties and hang out with other people to the point where you only see her once a month, then I don't really think it's unreasonable for you to feel the relationship has run its course. On the other hand, do you take effort to spend time with her? Is it the same job she had before or is it a different job that demands more of her time? It's a two way thing, so if you find that you're the one putting all the effort into seeing her but it isn't returned, it's expected that the relationship would end. If you both want to work on it, maybe you can reach a compromise where you go to see her one day a week and she makes the effort to see you one day a week.

If she isn't making time for you then that is a huge red flag, but like adrian I wonder how much of an effort are you making to see her?

In the end, actions speak louder than words and if her actions tell you she is not interested, I wouldn't pay attention to her tears. You need to decide how long you are in this for if she doesn't work out a plan to see you more.

Thank Guys... yea i spent time with her, at least i tired... she took me for granted, and i could clearly see that she's seeing it now...

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