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Published on September 25, 2013 by ameneagle

the one am in love with says she dosn't love me anymore like an unbelievable magic she seems serious about it.She says its over...Really don't want to stay here and love someone that seem not 2love me...pls can u help me unlove? Cuz she is all over my mind,my soul,my spirit...i think I want out now...M tired of the torment...Thanks for ur help.

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I have worked with men and women who are trying to get out of a relationship/marriage, who are still in love. You are right, it is not good or healthy to stay with someone who cannot return your love, and you deserve someone who can. The first few weeks and months are the hardest, but you will get through it, I feel certain! I have seen people go from feeling anguished and desperate about their lost love to finding themselves through it all and then finding love again with someone else. They once again, feel hopeful, happy and fulfilled. Simply put, you will not be able to sustain a viable relationship where the love is not coming from both sides.

Staying in a relationship where you don't get the love you're receiving is dangerous. It would be better to get out of the relationship and properly grieve the relationship.

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