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Decision Making at 19!

Published on October 1, 2010 by bekah_cogent

So almost a year ago I asked a question about getting married. I never saw the answers because my email didn't notify me and I forgot to come back. I'm still kind of talking about that now.

I recently initiated a conversation with my boyfriend about what our future looks like. Or if it's an "our". He is 22 now and I am 19. We will have been together 4 years this coming December. I just told him that I want him within the next year to start thinking about what he wants to do and where he wants to go with this relationship. He doesn't have to propose, I just want to know what he sees happening.

I know we won't get married this young but I feel like after 5 or so years, if that person still doesn't know if they want to be with me, I will find someone who is sure. So I am hoping he finds that he does :) We are both young so it's tough .. any advice?