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Published on August 29, 2013 by cmspurple

Help for some reason I feel like I am slightly interested in two guys?!! I'm not crushing on them but whenever I walk by them I want them to notice and pay attention to me which makes me happy. One of them is nice, smart and jokes around with me and the other one is more of a bad boy who is nice, charming, and likes to say my name whenever I go by him. I don't know of I'm crushing on them or what?!! But when I feel like they may not be single which I'm not sure it makes me feel disappointed and hollow if that helps your answers... Help!!

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Hi Cmspurple.

Those are nice boys! Of course you want their attention. That's completely normal. Just as normal for looking good while walking around and wanting other guys giving you a glimpse. Such things makes us feel better about ourselves and we all love attention and we all want to be loved and praised by guys. Don't worry about it at all! You have all the rights to flirt with them if they are so nice to you and make you feel good about yourself. (Well, unless they already have girlfriends... Then you need to be the better person and... wel... don't do such thing.) Girls tend to be very quicly in love with someone cute who likes them back and that is completely normal. And thinking about the possibility of them already having a girlfriend makes you feel rejected, ofcourse it does, but that doesn't mean you're in love with them.

So don't worry about it and enjoy the attention you're giving and getting! I hope this helps. Good luck and keep us posted!

Kind regards, Rapunzel.

Dear Confused,

Liking 2 men at once can sure be confusing, especially if you don't know if they are single!

My advice is to savor the attention, if it makes you feel good. As of now, neither of them are your boyfriend and it is totally acceptable to flirt with both of them!

This is an opportunity for you to practice being feminine and learning to flirt. Smiling, laughing and making good eye contact are all forms of flirting. If you are walking down the hall you can turn back around smile, keep eye contact, and make sure they know you are checking them out.

But until one of them makes a move, you are still single, so please keep your options open and don't get too focused on either of them. Enjoy your freedom of being single and have a great time in the process.

If you are ready to have a boyfriend I suggest to start with making a list of the qualities that you are looking for, such as is sweet, funny and asks me out on a date every week. Enjoy the process!

If you have any other questions, don't hesitate to ask.

Dina Z Colada Your Tango Expert http://www.yourtango.com/experts/dinazcolada

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