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complicated love bug

Published on September 7, 2010 by luvbug

I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and recently found out that he was married . I always suspected that something was not right but thought I was just being paranoid .... Truth is I am still inlove with this man and still want to be with him .. He still wants to be with me ... and I'm just an emotional wreck pretty much messed up right now ..

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relationship with married man is absolutely complicated. just think about how would his wife feel if she knew? you must NOT be in theese kinds of relationship.

This man is married and you have NO BUSINESS being involved with him! You need to find someone who is available because you CANNOT win in this situation and you will only bring yourself more heartache and suffering the longer you continue with it. God has someone better for you so trust in Him and wait on HIS timing! I'll be praying for you.

Luvbug,

Unfortunately, you just found out the secret to life... Men Suck! I'm sorry you had to find out the hard way. Not all men mind you, but about 99% suck. Sex, sex, sex, sex. Man's mind. I used to be one of these guy's when I was really young. I am ashamed to say it, but it took the loss of my family to realize what a complete jerk I was. I believe that a human being will be attracted to many of the opposite sex during their lifetime. It is what you do about it that makes life really difficult.

Based on my experience in this area, I can only suggest that you have a final public meeting with this guy, not to make a scene, but to guard against relapse since he still wants to be with both of you. Ask him why he didn't tell you about being married and see what kind of Bull he spins... "My wife doesn't understand me"; "we have an open marriage"; "my wife doesn't like sex-she said it's OK but she just doesn't want to know the details"...

Cut it off before things get ugly with the wife...

Sorry.

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