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Comfortable or Commited

Published on July 23, 2013 by akf7

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 8 years. Lately our sex life sucks! I know he's not cheating, so that's not a concern, but we just don't have sex very often and he says it's because I don't initiate it. I'm kind of shy- so instead of physically initiating i verbally say things or text message him things like "do me tonight" or something like that. He rarely kisses me or even touches me. What do i do to get that romance back? I have begged for a couple years now to change our sex life, but nothing has really changed. It's to the point where i am questioning if i want to spend my life with him. There's a few other "downfalls" he has that also make me question it- but the sex situation is a pretty big deal. How do i get that spark back or is it gone forever?

Thanks so much for your time!