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I need someone’s help Please. I have been divorced for 2 years; I have found a Lovely Lady who has been divorced for over ten years. In that time yes she has told me she has “played the Field” to find love (not a problem for me). I told her I cant and won’t judge! We get on Very well together; in fact she tells me she loves spending time with me. As often as she can (she runs a home, with a teenage Daughter, 2 jobs) The Daughter is not a problem in fact only last night, we were all talking and trying to sort out Christmas arrangements, after it was suggested they went up country to spend the time with the rest of their Family (her Daughter, was upset the thought that I would be on my own (Lovely Thought from her)!
We get on so well together, we laugh have fun (the way it should be) it is just she keeps on telling me “She only thinks of me as a Very Good Friend “! She states she has No Chemistry Attraction to me? We openly talk about her need for an “Intimate Relationship” But not with me! When she finds her Lover etc.???
It is not we are not compatible? We like all the same things, films the Christmas moves now doing the rounds, the same hobbies, interests etc.
No Kissing (at all)! I can’t hold her Hand, Cuddle, etc (the only time we are allowed to get close) is a Warm Friendly Hug!!! I’m a Trained Healer & Masseur She will not allow me to gave her (I think she Loved it too much?) and she is Frightened of letting her “Guard Down”! I Believe this is mainly due to her Being Mistreated by all the one’s that let her down when she was “Looking for Love” in fact she tells me that some of her Searches! Were Friends First! Then progressed and then they were gone! Which I believe she has been Scared (that’s why she doesn’t what to go they again)!
Any Advise Please? How can I change her Chemistry Attraction/Mid towards me ??? Blessings Runningbear