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Can you explain this mindset of a man?

Published on October 4, 2013 by cbradshaw13

Before you read, I can tell you that I know this man is not worth it, and yes I know I need to move on and I'm in the process of that, but what is holding me back are the unanswered questions. So here it is, nice and sweet. Dated a guy for 3 months and 2 weeks ago, a girlfriend asked me over so we could look online for her to find "dating" potentials. After going through several, we found an ad posted that was too familiar. It was word for word the same description of himself he sent to me in an email the beginning of the summer. After several communications between my friend and him, it was clear it was the same man. He had an ad looking for a threesome. Yes, he is scum, and I knew I was done. But he went on to tell her that he had been seeing someone, however she was a horrible kisser, and lacked the intellectual capacity to keep him interested enough to train her to do it right. Therefore, he had no interest in her. He mentioned several other points of what he didn't like about her, some where conversations we had,confirming it was me. WTF? I'm so intellectually beneath him that he lost interest in me? Three months seeing each other every week is a long time to fake it! We can all agree he is a a-hole and I'm better off without him. But learning he felt this, has never been more of a shock in my life. There are countless emails and conversations, telling me how much he wants to be with me and missed me. Countless... This isn't my first rodeo, so I don't understand how I didn't see he was lying. Was he? That makes me sound like a stupid girl, but how does one say those things that much, then become poster man child for Dr. Jeckle and Mr. Hyde? None of this makes sense.