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Can someone help me with my relationship problem ?

Published on August 5, 2010 by jasmine96

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months , since February 27, 2010 . Everything was great . Things have changed though . At first he always bought me stuff and we would talk on the phone mostly all day everyday . Then , after he went to a party with his friends things changed . It was his sisters party and I knew he wouldn't do anything to hurt me or even try to go with another girl . But it's his ex . Yes, I will admit I am jealous of her . But he told me they hated each other . But suddenly after the party they're friends again . Then , things really changed . He doesn't call me everyday . He may call a few days a week . Then , I also noticed that he seems grumpy on the phone , like he doesn't want to talk . He just seems like he doesn't care about me and it bothers me . I gave this man my virginity and I even gave him my heart . I love him so much and I don't know if I'm just making things seem worse then they are because of his ex or what . I just really need help because I can't stop thinking about him and I'm scared he's going to break up with me . I just really need to know if I should talk to him and straighten things out or just give up , something that I really don't want to do . Just please help me .

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i went through something very similar walk away.. as fast as possible more than likely they are talking again.. as for me he was back with his ex.it is best to get out early which is now then later when you will be very hurt. one thing i have learned is that if you follow your gut instinct you want be miss lead .....if your gut is saying that there is something going on more than likely there is .

This man is still harboring feelings for his ex. He went to a party with someone he hates being there? Yea...Doesn't sound right. He knows this and he doesn't want to hurt you in the process of finding out. Don't worry about talking about it with him. Start distancing YOURSELF. That way you are preparing for the worst and hoping for the best. I think its pretty chicken for him to act like that but that's what guys w/o balls do. Just start doing you and don't worry so much about him and his behavior. Keep this in mind: "Never let someone else get SLEEP over your GRIEF."

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