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Break Up or Stay Together?
I'm currently in a complicated relationship I have been dating this man for five months. Before I started dating him I was in a very abusive relationship for 2 and half year. I finally got out that relationship, and prayed for a good man. I think I found him, but I never got over what my ex did to me. So I took it out on my current boyfriend. Out of the 5 months we been dating we have only a few good weeks. Alot of it is my fault. I would start agurements for nothing, and say crazy things to him because I was still anger and upset of what my ex did to me. I'm very insecure of being in a relationship because I think that people just lie. But my current boyfriend is a good man. I have taken him to hell and back. He admitted to me three weeks ago that he cheated and the woman could be pregnant by him. he told me that this happen when I was given him so much drama. I have cheated on him several times but I never admitted it. We both say we love each other. Its alot of things I don't like about this relationship my bf drive trucks and he work 70+ hours every week so we dont see each other til on sundays. Sometimes I don't see him than if I have started a arguement with him. But the five months we been together he never invited me to church, i never met his mom but he have met mine i never ever been to his place. I feel that he is hiding something and not telling me the truth. he tells things would be so much better if I wouldn't cause so much drama for nothing. he is a great person, and we have so much fun together when i'm not arguing with him. I mean he has never accussed me of anything of started a arugement with me.This is driving me crazy that I don't see him everyday because thats what I'm use to, but he does talk to me every nite so we can still be in touch with each other. I told me he is looking for a wife and a little girl. I just feel insecure that he doesn't love me like I love him and i don't know whether I should stay with him and change my ways, and just break up so help me out guys.