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Boyfriend not interested in sex?

Published on October 13, 2013 by txheart

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is two years older than me and we've been in a relationship for a bit over 6 months now. We knew eachother for a few years beforehand so we know each other very well. The relationship is great, we spend lots of time together, we love each other and he's incredibly caring and sweet, however the problem is that we still haven't had sex yet and he doesn't seem to be interested in it. I know a lot of his friends say they don't understand how he got a girl like me, as he's not the best looking guy but he has such a great personality.

To begin with I figured he was just nervous so that's why it never happened, then I had some issues with contraception (side effects), but now I've finally got the contraception issues sorted and we still aren't having sex. I make obvious hints and jokes about it and have tried to initiate it, but then all I hear is "we should probably get some sleep" or something along those lines. The only night that he was remotely interested in something recently I was so sick there was no way I could have. It's frustrating, because I don't want to seem pushy about it or too forward, but we've both had sex with other people in the past so I don't understand why it's so difficult? Help! :(