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Body and the way men view it
Hi, been on and off with my bf of more than 4 years and he just recently told me that if he didnt love me, he wouldnt be with me right now.
Reason: I lost lots of weight 5 years ago(before we met) and had loose skin (tummy) and saggy breast. He said the reason why the guys ive been with before him didnt want to be in a relationship with me was because the way i looked was a turn off. It shocked me because i had no idea he ever felt that way towards me and i didnt know i looked THAT bad before. See i always had a problem with the way my tummy looked but the way he said it is like: You look good with clothes on but once you take them off, most guys will fuck you but only once. Then they'll disappear.
I gain a few pounds back over the years so my breast are fuller and i got a tummy tuck a year ago to fix my loose skin problem but i cant help but feel like he exaggerated. Of course it hurts my feelings and i cant help asking myself: is that true?
How do i get over it and not let my self esteem decrease because of that?