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Best friend & Boyfriend
I've been dating my current boyfriend for about 11 months now and about 5 months into our relationship, I decided to ask my boyfriend if he would consider having a foursome. Jumping at the Idea, he asked 2 of our other friends that night if they were up for it. They both agreed and we were waiting for the right time to start. I layed down the ground rules infront of the participants. The other male who was to join the foursome approached me and told me he wasnt very keen on the idea now that he had thought it through. After listening to his reason I felt he was right. I went to find my boyfriend to tell him and found him with the other female partipant, kissing. (Kissing was one of the ground rules that was a "no go" because of emotional issues)I asked to talk to him privately and had a bit of a go at him and told him the foursome was off. Later that night I walked into the room to find my boyfriend and the other female participant having sex. To this day my boyfriend says he never heard me say that the foursome was off and he thought that myself and the other male partipant were still going to have sex. He has appologised but I'm still very offended by what happnened that night and now its bothering me to much for my own liking. What do I do now?