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Back with my ex?

Published on April 7, 2010 by lostgirl23

I started talking to another guy when me and my ex were already having some issues (dated almost 2 years). He was in college and I was still in high school. I kissed another guy before I broke up with him. We talked for a little and I had a choice of which guy. I chose the new guy. Now I have started talking to my ex again, but not in a relationship manner. He says we'll never be right until I break up with my guy, but there are no signs that he still is interested with me. I don't know if it is worth trying or not.


So your ex only wants to be friends with you but only if you break up with your boyfriend? That's weird and vague to say the least. He doesn't get to set terms with you for a friendship. If he wants to actually date you again, he can say that and then yes, you would need to break up with your current to get back with him. But just to be friends, no way. If you are unsure whether it's worth "trying" or not, meaning breaking up with your boyfriend to try and get back with your ex, that tells me that you aren't really all that into your current boyfriend. If you aren't that into him, break up with him. It doesn't matter if you have some other potential relationship waiting for you or not. It's like you're just keeping him around until you find someone better and that's not really being fair. I'd also have to wonder why someone in college would want to date someone in high school. Those are two different worlds there. I'm hoping that you're at least legally and adult. That said, if you're still in high school you are young and have a huge world of dating experiences waiting for you. You don't need to limit yourself to your ex and this other infatuation you have. If you aren't really into either of them there's always option C) Neither. Nothing wrong with being single, taking time to yourself to see what else is out there.

The real question is what do you want? It seems like you chose the new guy, but you are flirting with the possibility of the ex. In the end you just need to make a decision about what you want and stick with it.