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Article about Shedding New Light on Cheating
OH BOY! Did you EVER hit the nail on the head with this one for me!! I just basically gave my husband the final ultimatum last night about this same exact situation. He has been totally distanced from me for over six years, thus, there is no emotional marriage left. He laughs, he says I am pathetic in my efforts to try to get him to interact, he mocked me when I said the other night that although he had surgery recently, we could still "frolic" around, so I sent him a text late last night with the ultimatum. I absolutely cannot take this anymore, and like you said, it really has little to do with actual sex, but more the intimacy of a relationship. The strange part is that we just saw his brother go through the same, exact thing - albeit for 25 years - and did end up finding another woman, is divorcing his wife, etc. However, his wife did the same thing - laughed off his efforts at any emotional attachment! Where do we go from here before I let loose? Thanks.