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are we over

Published on February 3, 2012 by iwishx

hi im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly five years I love him so much but since my nan died we have been fighting non stop because I cant handle she gone we had a break but we couldn't help but get back together we missed each other but lately I feel like were drifting apart I don't know what to do plz help


People change and grow over time. Sometimes people who enjoyed dating each other in their teens, find that in their twenties, they grow apart because they now each have different life goals. Sometimes people want to have more life experience before settling down with one person. It may be that your relationship has run its course. Have a discussion with him about what he wants. Is it the same as you? How do you want the relationship to be? Give him specific things you want the both of you to do. Otherwise, don't make your boyfriend your entire world. Spend time with girlfriends. If you don't have a hobby, get one. You should be going to college soon, if you plan on going. That takes an enormous amount of time and your life is going to really change. If your relationship is strong enough, it will last. If he's meant to be your first love and nothing more, then you can have a happy memory of that. Good luck.