Unless he's told you it's been a regular thing for him before. Almost all men are curious and want to try it - once. Most of us find it doesn't really do anything for us, and move on to the better stuff (intercourse and oral).

Don't be pressured into doing anal - only do it if YOU want to give it a try. If you DO give it a try, remember these three big rules of anal sex:

1) There is no such thing as too much lube! 2) NEVER go from anal to vaginal without him washing his penis VERY thoroughly first (lots of soap and scrubbing). If you violate this rule, you are begging for a really nasty vaginal infection. The easiest thing to do is to have him wear a condom during anal, then remove it or switch to a new one before going to vaginal. 3) If it hurts or is uncomfortable, he MUST stop. You get to decide if it hurts or is uncomfortable, and make very clear that if he doesn't immediately stop when you tell him to, he better have a spare pair of balls someone because you're going to kick his so hard they'll never recover.

Nothing wrong with your man. Anal sex is indeed outside-the-box with the tabu factor in it. That's one of the many reasons why it's appealing for a lot of people. Lots of Heterosexual couples have tried it according to the information available online.

The previous answer to your question gives you very good advice. Lots of lube, hygene, no pain allowed, try it only if YOU want to. BUT the main ingredients for a fulfilling anal sex experience are not on the technical or physical side. You can just follow the right procederes. Instead, they are on the emotional side. As well as there is no such thing as too much lube, I would say there's no such thing as too much love, trust, patience, caring, understanding, communicaton when it comes to anal sex. It has to be and can be, a loving intimate experience.

If you decide to try it, make sure he's not thinking he's going to do what you see in porn. That's fantasy.

If your boyfriend doesn't have the experience, I can give you my email so you can write me and tell me if you want detailed tips on how to make it painless and pleasurable. I don't know if giving you my email is against the site's rules so I'm not doing it unless you let me know it's ok, OK?

Hi that would be great if you could send me an email . Mines . Any more hints or tip would be appreciated