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Am I being too paranoic?
So, here's the deal: I'm in the military, and last april I met a very sweet guy at the base bar. We're in different branches (I'm navy, he's marine), but we just fell head over heels for each other right away. A month after we met, he proposed me! No joke; he bought a very expensive diamond ring to me (right in front of my eyes) and gave it to me one day asking me to marry him in the future (probably in a few years after we rank up a little bit more and have more money). I told him I would think about it, and he took that answer as a yes. I'm getting crazy in over this man, yet I feel is too soon for that. The fact that he proposed me too soon makes me think he could be a stalker, but at the same time I don't see anything suspicious about him. In fact, he seems more suited for me than my previous relationship (a short marriage; to another military guy that I met when I was a civilian, back in college) because his family really likes me, unlike my previous inlaws (who were constantly waiting until the day I could divorce their spoiled son because they hated me so much and love their overprotected son so much). Plus, this guy really loves kids and I want to have some kids after I do my sea tour at the beginning of next year. The only thing that makes me back up a little bit is that this is happening too soon and I don't want another failed relationship. Because of our jobs, our PCS are going to be just a few miles apart, so the distance won't be a big deal, but I'm still concern about this flash romance. Any advice?