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Am I a slut?

Published on January 14, 2013 by lcbbycakes

i just turned 18 years old on december first and i've slept with 17 different guys. i'm very ashamed of my number. i went/still am going thru a major party stage where i get drunk and sleep with randoms. i feel like i belong on the jersey shore. i just think i might have an std. my vagina ALWAYS stinks. i have to douche like, once a week and whenever i have sex it REEKS of fish. i'm just ashamed. am i a slut? :'( SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME. i'd really appreciate it.

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You shouldn't think of yourself in labels. I love sex, I am 22 in an open relationship and have multiple partners. If you enjoy sex, then go for it! Go for it in a mature and healthy manner, though. It is not healthy or smart to have unprotected sex ever!! Nor is it healthy to get completely wasted and have some random do what ever to you. This will only make your already lowered self of steam worse. You are not a slut you are 18 and need to learn some self love and need to consume weaker drinks at parties. Another tip set sexual guidelines for yourself, like, always have a condom, get to know your partner a little before having sex, and never do something you will hate yourself for later, and never do anything you don't want to do. You are a woman now, be strong. Drink virgin drinks, they have alcohol, no one will know the difference. Also now that you are having sex so often visit your OBGYN more he/she will give you some healthy tips as well. And douching is not healthy for you, it is actually very unhealthy for you, if the smell is unusual, that can't be helped with bathing or femine cleansing cloths, then make an appointment with your OBGYN ASAP. Remeber your not a slut, just 18 and need to learn to embrace sex in a mature manner with some self love.

Whether or not I think you're a slut is irrelevant. What IS relevant is that the behavior you are describing is very dangerous and very foolish - even to the point of being self-destructive.

  1. You are drinking underage, which will cause some legal headaches if you get caught.
  2. You are frequently drinking to the point of impairment, which leaves you vulnerable or helpless to anything someone might want to do to you. You may also be an alcoholic.
  3. You are having sex with random strangers you encounter while drunk.
  4. You have had risky sex with 17 guys in what I presume is, at most, only a few years of sexual activity. You are placing yourself at extreme risk for all sorts of diseases (including HIV), as well as risking an unwanted pregnancy.
  5. You are seriously short-changing yourself out of the major joy in having sex, which is having it with someone you love and care about (which is an order of magnitude more enjoyable and satisfying than what you've been doing). Random hook-up's are really little more than assisted masturbation - without the caring for the person you're with, he's essentially just a sex toy that doesn't need batteries.

By the way. A strong unpleasant or fishy odor is almost a guarantee that you have a bacterial infection.

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