Here's the issue. I would say that 90% percent of the time my girlfriend refuses oral pleasure from me. She's 29 and i'm 37. I love doing this for her. It's the only way she gets off. We've been together now for two years. Our sexlife is almost non-existant. We have sex now maybe once every three months. This in itself in a problem that we're trying to remedy. She tells me she's not comfortable with how she looks. That she doesn't feel sexy and won't even let me look at her naked. So she just hasn't felt sexual or desire to be sexual.

I'm 23 yrs and I can't get horny for longer than about 2minutes. Waht do you think is the problem?

my fiance seems so nervous when we get naked together and have sex. He seems disconnected from me. He likes to drink before sex to relax and this effects his ability to achieve and maintian an erection. he has told me that he likes to drink before because he thinks he dosnt last long enought and drinking helps this problem.?