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after 25 years i hace reconnected with a guy i had a relationship with and it has went from just casual to sexual. i am so confused as to why he is wanting to have sex with me. just the other day i met him and he took me back to his house and had the best sex we have had in 25 years but in the bed where him and his wife sleep. i feel no guilt and i don't think he does either. why is he doing this?

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Pivyque
PivyqueMarried
Posted February 23, 2012

He is doing it because he wants to have sex with other women. From the sound of it, you are not the first woman he has slept with in his wife's bed.

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Posted February 21, 2012

What do you mean why is he doing this? He wants to have sex with someone that is not his wife. And you are OK with this? What is it that you want? If you are looking for a relationship, he is already taken.

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Posted February 21, 2012

I understand what you are saying but why would he be taking the risk of having sex with me at his house when his wife could have returned home and found us there.and i am already taken as well.

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Pivyque
PivyqueMarried
Posted February 23, 2012

Oh wow? So you cheated on your partner as well? He probably knew she wouldn't be home for a while. A lot of men bring their mistresses to the homes they share with their wives. You should probably ask him why he chooses to do so. It is cheaper than paying for a hotel.

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