Asked by rayan on
want to get him back
me and my boyfriend is together since 2009.next year we r going to marry.we love each other very much and he agrres that.but it seems theres no passion,madness like before .it is like our relatioship is a duty now.but i dont want it. i want my that lovely days back.i want him to be mad in love with me like before.plz help me with suggestions.im tensed.thnx.
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The crazy passion in the first few months of a relationship is a once in a lifetime thing. It's never meant to last. Then a relationship becomes more easy going and comfortable. It's up to each partner to put daily effort into a relationship. You can leave a romantic or sexy note for him in his pocket or on the bed, etc. When he call you, answer the phone with "Hey handsome" or something else cute. Plan fun things to do together. Pack a picnic lunch and eat by a lake, beach or put a blanket on the living room floor. He should respond by doing nice things for you as well. If he doesn't, ask him for what you want. It's all about communication. Give each other foot rubs, back rubs. Try new things sexually. Read articles on the internet about different things you can do as a couple, so you don't get stuck in a rut. If either of you plays video games or is always on the phone texting others, make some new rules to turn those things off sometimes so you're spending quality time together. Relationships are like plants. If you ignore them, they will die.